A few days after Chris died I was listening to a beautiful album by Cindy Fink and Marcy Marxer called "Voice on the Wind". On comes a song that included these words:
"Your last hours we never knew
We never had a chance to say goodbye to you
Words unsaid, things undone,
We just begun and now we'll never see them through."
The song is called "Time to Learn" and was written by Tim O'Brien and Pat Alger. You can buy the album from their website. Look for "Time to Learn" in the playlist for a sample.